best ways to talk about music with your DJ
Choosing music for your reception. Good or Bad or how much?
If your reading this article, I will lead you through the truth behind what makes a successful reception when it comes to music. The biggest misconception of all brides and grooms is that they are required to choose the music for their reception. TRUTH=NO WAY (see below)
1st of all, you should be meeting with your DJ/MC 4 to 5 weeks before the reception to discuss the music. Yes, you will have access to your online planner and get a chance to choose some must plays, do not plays, ect.. but you should have trust in your DJ that their talent and experience, balanced with your input on the music for your wedding reception will make for a great mix of music for all.
When choosing music: THINK DANCE MUSIC NOT your favorite listening songs. Most do not realize this and just put down music they want to hear, but truth be told, how are your guests going to react to those songs. We as DJ's need to build an atmosphere of fun music for all age-groups.
DO NOT: submit a playlist with your own songs for the reception. If you do this, there is no room for error and your guests surely and most likey arent going to react the way you had hoped. If this happens, you better have a plan B for your DJ.
A do not play list should be discussed with your DJ. Most wedding DJ's stay away from: corny novelty (discuss), rap, heavy metal, explicit lyrics, suggested lyrices ect... But go a little further and dig.. ask them questions about where they went to college, where did they like to go dancing,, oh, they aren't dancers, ask them if they like to karaoke, go see bands,, ect.. This will way better tell us what they like music wise.
If submitting a Do not play list, only list about 5 or 6 of your most favorite. If the DJ has a do not play list of 10 songs or more, it does get more difficult as each song has to be run through the do not play list..
Interaction: should you or shouldn't you...........we reccomend, but it can be done on a "if needed" basis
Trust your DJ/Mc,, utilizing their talent, your experience and taking requests from the guests, should make for an amazing night.